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2009/05/13 07:00
Know Thyself
Know Thyself

One day,a blue bird flies into your room.You decide to keep him.To your surprise,the next day the bird has changed colour and is yellow instead of blue.The following day the bird is bright red.On the fourth day,the strange bird has gone completely black.

Which colour do you think the bird will be the next day?

1.Still black
2.Blue again
3.White
4.Gold

1.Still black - You have a pessimistic outlook on life.As soon as things go wrong,you see only the rain and forget that the rain will shine again.When things have taken a turn for the worse,they can only get better!

2.Blue again - You have a realistic outlook on life.You know that the sun doesn't always shine and that after every night the day comes again.You accept things as they are and let the waves carry you without getting washed away.

3.White - In difficult times you remain calm and continue to make the right decisions.You don't abandon your path quickly,but if something is not working,you cut your losses and look for a new way to reach for goal.

4.Gold - You don't know the meaning of the word fear.Every crisis is an opportunity.You trust yourself and have no limits.But,keep in mind that there's a fine line between fearlessness and naivety.

You're walking through the woods when you suddenly see a glint of metal through the leaves.It seems to be briefcase.You open it,and it's full of money.What is your first reaction?

1.Yes!This is my lucky day!
2.Oh no,what do i do with this?
3.I'm going to sleep on this...
4.Fate led me to this!

1.You'd probably be really happy about it.If more people could express their happiness like you,this world would be a better place.

2.It's normal to feel a bit unsure at a moment like this,but in the end the decision is totally yours.Still,don't debate too long,or else you might lose a chance at happiness.

3.You think you would make this decision with a clear head after a good night's sleep.There's nothing wrong with that,but sometimes it's also good to go with your gut feeling and take the plunge.Sometimes you have to take risks to find true love.

4.You thank faith for opportunities that come your way,and are probably more likely to believe in love at first sight...

You're a kid again who's just been let out of school on a Friday afternoon.You've just bought a bubble bottle and are blowing bubbles in a field near the school.What kind of bubbles do you blow?

1.Bubbles that are swept up into the air by the wind
2.Many little tiny bubbles
3.One gigantic bubble
4.Bubbles that drift down the road behind you

1.You feel that your dreams are unreachable,soap bubbles carried by the wind.Maybe you set your sights too high,or maybe you're stuck in an impossible fantasy.Whatever the case may be,there's a big gap between your reality and your dreams.

2.Your dreams are realistic and are always within reach.You strive to achieve practical things,like new clothes,a partner,a nice car.However,with so many things you want to achieve,it's important to remember:'the hunter that chases two rabbits catch neither one.'

3.You are dedicated to one big dream in your life.You are determined and ambitious and you'll do anything to accomplish your goal.And,as log as you don't give up,you will.

4.You've been disappointed in the past by unfulfilled dreams,which has shaped you current outlook in life.Don't be afraid to form new dreams and go after them.Remember that the only people who are never disappointed are the people who never try.

You are lost in a dark cave,hopelessly searching for the exit,when a bat flies down to whisper in your ear.What does he say?

1.I know where the exit is.
2.Come with me;I'll show you the way out.
3.Keep searching-you'll find it.
4.You're never going to find the exit.

1.You're a bit of a know-it-all and like to stick your nose in other people's business.You're always ready to help people and give them advice,even if they're not asking for it.

2.You're a very helpful person who's always ready to lend a hand.People feel at ease with you because they know they can count on you when they need it.

3.You mostly keep your help and advice to yourself-not because you don't want to be helpful,but you think it's good for people to learn their own lessons.And,you're right:in the long run,this is the best way to encourage independence and maturity.

4.You like to kick a dog when it's down.Seeing someone else suffer makes you feel better about yourself.This attitude will prevent you from making new friends and will probably cause problems in your existing relationships.Watch out!

You're lying on your back staring up at a clear,blue sky.Then,you sit up.What do you see before you?

1.A white snowy landscape.
2.A blue seascape.
3.A green hill.
4.A field of yellow flowers.

1.You have the ability to quickly see through problems to their solutions.You generally make good decisions and usually have a good idea of what to expect from situations.Trust your intuition and all will turn well.

2.You have a talent for dealing with people and can bring different groups of people together in harmony.Your presence alone helps people to work better and faster,making you a valuable asset to any team.

3.You are very good at describing your own feelings and,therefore,have good insight into feelings of others.You are a good listener and people quickly feel comfortable in your presence.

4.You are busting with knowledge and creativity.You always have great ideas and know how to get others enthusiastic about them.With your passion and energy,any dream is within your reach.

You're standing in front of a painting in an art museum.You're looking intently at the piece of art when a stranger walks up beside you and speaks to you.What does he say?

1.A fantastic painting,isn't it?
2.What do you think of this painting?
3.Excuse me,do you know what time it is?
4.I'm a painter myself.

1.Your friendly and positive character endears you to pretty much everyone.The only drawback is that some people may not take you seriously at first.

2.You're the type of person who likes to feel someone out before giving your own opinion.Others can sense this,which may influence their reaction to you.You're never going to be the one to step on people's toes,but make sure you don't let others walk all over you.

3.Half the people you meet will like you,while the other half will find you a bit strange.You march to the beat of your own drum and have your own way of doing things.Some people think you are eccentric,but you don't really care what other people think.This is your biggest strength and weakness.

4.You can come across as a bit nervous or overly enthusiastic to new people.But,the harder you try,the worse a first impression you make.Don't try so hard to convince others how awesome you are-they'll like if you just be yourself!

What fruit are you?

R-A-S-B-E-R-R-Y
If you are taken

C-H-E-R-R-Y
If you like someone and not sure how they feel about you

A-P-P-L-E
If you're in a relationship and you love the guy/girl so much that you never ever want to lose them no matter what,you would do anything for them

G-R-A-P-E
If you're single and loving it

C-O-C-O-N-U-T
If your single and living life and just having fun

L-E-M-O-N
If you are about to give up

B-A-N-A-N-A
If you are taken and confused

P-I-N-E-A-P-P-L-E
If you are just taking life as it comes

W-A-T-E-R-M-E-L-O-N
If you were left at birth, then taken by elves and you are now fighting crime with a candy cane

S-T-R-A-W-B-E-R-R-Y
If you like someone and they like you back but you aren't going out right now

M-A-N-G-O
You are close to not caring anymore

B-L-U-E-B-E-R-R-Y
If you are happy with the way things are right now but wouldn't mind having someone to love in your life.But for the most part just chill and have fun living life

C-H-O-C-O-L-A-T-E
If you want a girlfriend/boyfriend so bad

W-O-L-L-Y-P-O-P
if you have the worst love life ever!!!you've given up!!!

This is for all my friends:

I'm Sorry...
For all the mean things I might have said.
I'm Sorry...
For all the things I did or didn't do.
I'm Sorry...
If I ever ignored you.
I'm Sorry...
If I ever made you feel bad or put you down.
I'm Sorry...
If I ever thought I was bigger or better than you.
I Love You...
I'll always be here for you.
I am Sorry...
For everything wrong I've ever done.
I LOVE YOU! FRIENDS ALWAYS!!!I love you! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NAIL IN THE FENCE

Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.

(Most importantly the last sentence)

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper .
His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper ,
he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Over the next next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.
He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.

He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.


The days passed and the young boy was finally

able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.

The fence will never be the same.

When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.

It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry , the wound is still there.

A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They

make you smile and encourage you to succeed.

They lend an ear, they share words of praise

and they always want to open their hearts to us."

Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole in your fence.